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Monday, July 4, 2022

Lessons from Yayati - Satsangha

    Yayati’s life has been a huge treasure trove to unlock the wisdom of a typical human life. We can charter all the low points and the stratospheric heights a human being can traverse through in this spiritual journey. The preface of this wondrous incident was through Lessons from Yayati – Prelude. Most of us are perhaps stuck in the bottomless pit of samsara due to desires. This insight of this endlessness was evident in Lessons from Yayati – Endless desires. When we develop Viveka through continuous Satsangha, we find the futility of chasing desires as we now desire detaching from its vice like grip, which we gathered in Lessons from Yayati- Renunciation. The path of adhering to Dharma yields the subtler higher lokas of felicity as seen in Lessons from Yayati – Swarga. The discussions between Ashtaka and Yayati is priceless as it brings us timeless wisdom in Lessons from Yayati – Wisdom conversations 1 and Lessons from Yayati – Wisdom conversations 2. This brings us to the concluding portion of his life.


    To reconstruct a better picture we are going to attempt to blend two instances referred in the Mahabharata, one from Adi Parva and a concentrated message of wisdom given by Narada to Duryodhana in Udyoga Parva. This is to obtain a better idea of the events centered around the last portion of Yayati’s history.


Storytime:

   Ashtaka, Pratardana, Vasumanas and Sibi were performing vajapeya yagna at Naimisharanya. As the skies were clouded with the smoke from the Yaga, Yayati was falling from the higher loka down to earth. His fall was arrested by Ashtaka who engaged him with a very thought provoking wisdom filled conversation. As we recall, Yayati’s fall was due to his pride that he had done sadhana and tapasya par excellence. This led him to believe that he was superior, when he had no insight into other’s tapasya. This tainted his punya and led to his fall. But all the Punya he had came to the rescue and make him seek Satsangha even in the fall.


    The discussions with Ashtaka made him realize that Yayati was a great mahatma and deserves some help to restore his real state. He now retrains his questions to know the identity of Yayati. The subtle responses to technically difficult question of following shastras and doing sadhana without its aid must have made Ashtaka realize the value of such a wondrous being in Yayati. Ashtaka wanted to know from where he came, where and why he was heading. Yayati informed that he is falling from the higher lokas into the lower plane of naraka, this world of samsara, earth. His fall is hastened by the lokapalas on account of the taint, ahamkara brought to him and it was due to the blessing that he got this Satsangha. His fall will be imminent after the questions are over.


    Ashtaka wanted to know if he had any punyaphala due to his past good karmas. Yayati informed him that as long as there are cows, horses, forests and mountains filled with beings, Ashtaka had earned felicity in the higher lokas. Having learnt about what was his, Ashtaka declared that he was offering all that was his for Yayati and he can immediately regain what was lost. Yayati declined the offer citing that as a Brahmana with Brahmajnana alone was qualified to receive such a gift. Moreover as a Kshatriya, he can only give and never receive. He refused to set a precedent on what was not the norm.


    Pratardana introduced himself by name and asked Yayati if he had any higher realms against his Punyakarma. Yayati assured that Pratardana had numerous higher lokas with endless time waiting for his good deeds. Even if he spends seven days in each place, he will not see an end to the pleasures waiting. Pratardana now offered all these realms to Yayati. Yayati again declined citing that a king of similar energies should never seek the religious merits like yoga austerities of another king, driven by selfish needs. Even facing total calamity due to fate, a king must never choose a censurable path. A king must always be centered in Dharma and being such a person he cannot accept such an offer at any cost. One who knows the consequences of Papa and Punya and involves only in the right activities while avoiding the wrong ones is considered wise, filled with energy and purity of heart. While doing Dharma even if one has doubts regarding their outcome, the entire focus must be in doing Dharma not weighing the profit or loss. Dharma contains in itself both Artha and Kama, asserted Yayati.


    Vasumanas introduced himself as son of Ushadaswa and posed the same question. Yayati informed him that all the lokas illumined by the sun was awaiting him. Vasumanas now offered all of them to Yayati. Since Yayati had already declined getting anything in charity, Vasumanas offered that something trivial can be given as a token and it can be exchanged. Yayati again declined, stating that he has been afraid of Adharma. Even for jest, he never exchanged or bartered what was not rightful. How will he still abide in Dharma if he cut corners he queried. Vasumanas not to be left out countered him to consider taking it as Daana and not a barter. Yayati said he cannot enjoy what is not his.


    Sibi, son of Usinara now posed the same question. Yayati praised that Sibi never spoke or thought ill of anyone who got Daana from him. Knowing about what awaits him, Sibi pursued Daana angle by saying that what he had given he cannot take back. Yayati countered that just like Sibi has all the credit, even Yayati still has the same. Getting others fruits of Karma will never taste sweet.


    Ashtaka now presented their predicament. Having given all their Punya which was not accepted by Yayati, they will now face Naraka without having obtained the desired result of seeing Yayati enjoy the Punyaphala. Confronted by this quandry Yayati was unable to give a clear solution and hence appealed to the wisdom of the four Rajarishis. Yet he was firm in not chartering new paths. (Perhaps the new paths he forged in marrying Devayani and eventually Sarmishta proved too costly for him)


    Ashtaka was puzzled at the five golden chariots that appeared and wondered whose ride it was. Yayati informed it was for the Rajarishis who were performing Vajapeya yagna. Ashtaka opined that they can follow later, whilst Yayati suggested that they can go together.


(NOTE: The following is found in some recensions like Kumbakonam that seem to fill a lot of the blanks)

Connection with Yayayti revealed: As they were conversing, they found a herd of deer led by a Tapasvini who was also leading a life akin to them in the forests. Draped in deer skin, a lady whose only wealth was her tapasya, Madhavi strolled into the yagnasala. She was extremely pleased at the feats of her four children. (Madhavi had Ashtaka, Pratardana, Vasumanas and Sibi through a different husband). On seeing Yayati in a state of descent she saluted him.


    Vasumanas wanted to know why Madhavi saluted this divine being and what was the understanding behind. Madhavi informed that Yayati, the son of Nahusha, was her father and hence the maternal grandfather to all the four. She said that after Puru’s (her brother) coronation, he had left for swarga. She wondered what he was doing here. Vasumanas told her about his fall from swarga. The deeply concerned Madhavi addressed Yayati and said, just as sons even daughters are equally connected to the parents. She requested her father to accept all her Tapasya and regain swarga. Since they were his offsprings, there was no daana, barter or charity involved. He was duly entitled to share, just like the children and grandchildren share the wealth of the parents.

    Yayati now realized the connection with all. He declared if there was any benefit from all their Tapasya, he will consider himself redeemed by his daughter and his grandsons. The word used to refer to the ones born in same lineage, who are able to make such an impact is Dowhidra. Pitris are specially pleased with the offerings from the daughter and her progeny. Even today Dowhidra, kutapakala (when the post noon sun is hot) and sesame are very revered for Pitris, who hold cleanliness, renouncing anger and not performing Sharddha with haste as key elements.


The message in the race: Ashtaka reminded Yayati to take the chariot to swarga, who urged all the four grandsons to join him immediately on their chariots. Yayati said the chariots and its path were available only because they had overcome Rajoguna. After finishing the ritualistic bath to signal the end of the Yagna, all of them ascended their chariots, spreading their Punya all over as they went to Swarga.


    Ashtaka asked Yayati that he felt Indra as his friend and thought he will be the first to gain admittance to Swarga. Yet Usinara’s son, Sibi seemed to be leading everyone and leaving others way behind. Sibi earned tremendous wealth, yet gave away everything in daana. Thus he is foremost amongst them. In terms of Daana, Satya, Dharma, Tejas, patience, compassion, enthusiasm in whatever is being done, Sibi embodies them in infinite measures, which contributes to his superiority. Despite having all these, he is the abode of humility, which is the reason why his chariot went past the others.


    Ashtaka pleaded to know more about Yayati, as the feats he seemed to have achieved is beyond words. Yayati said he was the son of Nahusha, the father of Puru. He was their maternal grandfather. Vanaprasthi who gives away everything (in his case 101 horses with excellent qualities) and who lives the life of a Muni attains Swarga. He gave a detailed account of his daana to Brahmanas in the form of land, gold, wealth and kine. He upheld Dharma in all the places under his reign. All his subjects also upheld Satya (reference is made as Agni shining, which refers to speech. Can also interpret that everyone had spectacular progress by following Dharma). He had never spoken one word of untruth. Yayati declared that Satya alone is revered and cherished by the wise. Yayati shared that anyone discussing these incidents without a trace of jealousy will be immensely benefited by achieving the same lokas as they do.

 

Epilogue: We now have to taverse to the Udyoga Parva of Mahabharata. On the eve of Krishna’s peace mission, numerous Rishis like Kanwa and Narada advised Dhritarashtra and Duryodhana to compromise and prevent this mass destruction. Narada narrated many historical incidents and Yayati’s life was one.


    Narada’s account paints more details in filling the gaps. On his return Yayati approached Brahma and sought clarifications on his situation. In Narada’s version, Yayati acts in pride and lets his vanity blind his respect for Rishis. It appears before Indra asks the questions we saw in the Swarga episode, Yayati’s actions were colored by his ahamakara, which led to his fall.


    Brahma clarified that Yayati’s karma brought him to Swarga and it was the same that led to his fall. The hearts of everyone is covered by ignorance (ajnana). His return was possible to re-enjoy what was his, due to his dowhidras. Yayati still had one lingering doubt. His vast punyaphala was limitless, yet it was cut short and he saw an end to it. Why? Brahma again highlighted that pride alone was responsible for the evaporation of all his good karmas. Once PRIDE touches a person, it is sure to bring calamitous results. Brahma noted that anyone who is able to follow the rise of Yayati due to his wonderful good karmas, know the reason for his fall and his restored glory will be able to successfully handle tough challenges in their life.


Practical Applications:

Karma, Karma, Karma: The entire journey of Yayati revolves around the human struggle to evolve. With the base assumption that one is rooted in dharma, we face an onslaught of our past Karmaphalas and Vasanas. This everchanging scenario presents us with numerous opportunities, yet our vasana proclivities pull us towards the past. Desire coupled with attachment is the driver of Samsara. A pure Kama (desire) and/or Artha centered life will always lead to Papa. Papa by its very nature will try to protect itself and won’t hesitate to expose the performers of Karma to outlast.


    On the otherhand, Dharma always leads to Punya. It contains within it the merits of Artha and Kama. Punya not only protects itself but the dharma which was upheld also protects the ones who uphold it. (धर्मो रक्षति रक्षितः Dharmo Rakshati Rakshitaha) . Eventually Punyakarma, deep rooted in Dharma also produce Viveka which results in Vairagya. This elevated state due to Dharma leads to Moksha.


    The attachment laden desire meanwhile results a plethora of emtions and qualities like pleasure, pain, anger, jealousy, greed, hatred and more. Thus Karma can take us up or down depending on its nature. Yayati saw a meteoric rise and a great fall and was again able to rise up only due to Karma. Dharma provides a safety zone where only the good Karma are nurtured. Just as in Yayati’s experience, going to higher lokas is not a shield against the basal nature, nor does it prevent from us chartering a trip to the abyss.


Ahamakara: The constant misunderstanding of our “I” leads to mistaken identity and actions. One of the side effects is Pride, which always results in a fall. When the ones who have realized their self nature are ignored, abused or wrongly acted against, it always results in calamitous results.

    Humility is the hallmark of real knowledge (विद्या ददाति विनयं). Only learning to live based on dharma and shastras, besides constantly associating with Satsangha can give that humility.


Detachment: Even while adhering to Dharma or performing a yagna or giving away Daana one must focus on being detached to the outcome. If the Karmaphala is the only focus, then it will dent the potential expression of the fruits. Ashtaka found that quantitivately though matching Sibi, the latter’s detachment gave him the slight edge in that spiritual journey.


Satsangha: Yayati despite his great fall, due to all the past punya by constantly adhering to Dharma understood that the only redemption anyone having such a great fall can have is Satsangha. While our association with sensory objects, indriyas drive our manas outward, Satsangha does the opposite. They help us understand the reality and guide us to be grounded in it. Satsangha also provides the necessary environment for us not only be aware of the true potential, but also effect the transformation.


    Yayati’s life through its extreme swings may not happen to us in a single lifetime. But that is the story every Jivatma is going through across many janmas. Recalling Yayati’s story and the wondrous insights will keep us deep rooted in Dharma. Dharma and Satsangha are the only refuge. May be constantly seek them at every step of our life, so we can achieve the highest potential and our real nature of Moksha.




ॐ तत् सत

Monday, June 27, 2022

Lessons from Yayati - Wisdom Conversations 2

    Yayati has been enlightening us with insights that will take us thousands of janmas to encounter. The discussions with Ashtaka are fraught with practical wisdom. Yayati expounded the ephemeral nature of even achieving swarga. As Ashtaka’s next question is on Ashrama dharma, it may be a good idea to refresh Varnas – a spiritual insight. All things and beings in Prakriti are made up of three gunas – Sattva, Rajas and Tamas. These gunas that are in constant flux determine how they get expressed as Karmas. This Guna-Karma, the inner composition and its external expression is the basis on which the Rishis classified the ancient Indian society as the four varnas – Brahmana, Kshatriya, Vysya and Shudra. There is also an emphasis on the Purushartha (Dharma, Artha, Kama, Moksha) with the stage in life. This is referred as Ashrama – Brahmacharya (Dharma emphasized), Grihastha (Artha), Vanaprastha (Kama) and Sannyasa (Moksha).


Storytime:

    Ashtaka continued his questions by requesting Yayati to speak upon the four ashramas. He liked to know what should be the behavioral pattern of each Ashrama.


Brahmacharya: The Brahmachari is living in the preceptor’s house.

  • His dharma is not to wait on his acharya to remind him to study Vedas.

  • To not wait upon his Guru to give instructions for what is expected and to be proactive and initiate his own actions, without constant reminders.

  • Must have a good habit to rise up before his Guru and stay past his bedtime. (in other words focus less on sleep, but develop discipline to do his karmas)

  • Must have humility, sense control, be filled with contentment, enthusiastic and committed to learning.


Grihastha: It is assumed that all Grihastha’s have the foundation of Dharma, due to the Brahmacharya Vrata.

  • By observing Dharma, a Grihastha should generate Artha. This Artha must constantly be used to do Yagas and Dhaana. In short, the purpose of all Artha is not for mere Kama, but to strengthen dharma, which contains within it both Artha and Kama.

  • Feed and take care of the Athithis and invited guests.

  • Not hanker after other’s wealth and only take what is given to him.

   Grihasthashrama is the foundation of the society that is rooted in Dharma and supports all other ashramas.


Vanaprastha: This is an interesting idea unique to Sanatana Dharma.

  • A Vanaprasthi is living on his own vigor (contrary to thinking that they will be a burden or a drain on the society). A Vanaprasthi is not dependant on others and is not stressing on the resources of the society.

  • Since such a person has had his entire life rooted in Dharma from Brahmacharya and Grihastha stages, his focus is not devoid of Artha-Kama emphasis, so the mind is free of Papa orientation.

  • A Vanaprasthi is inclined to give away and doesn’t hoard anything.

  • Has good control on everything that feeds the different senses, including food and keeps a minimum to no interest in the worldly affairs.

  • Prefers staying in the forests, away from the worldly interactions as a Muni.


Sannyasa: Though monkhood may exist in many religions, Sannyasa is a truly unique idea limited to Sanatana Dharma. Though borrowed by other Dharmic religions like Buddhism and Jainism, only in Sanatana Dharma, the meaning and context is complete. Traits of a Sannyasi must include

  • Not living on a vocation (living on what is available and on alms)

  • Complete control over indiryas and filled with Sattva guna.

  • Renunciation of everything

  • Has no permanent home and is always on the move. Lives mostly secluded and in forests.

  • Has no possession and has minimal to no karmic footprint

  • Even if (s)he desires and obtains higher lokas due to the Punya, he gives it up readily without any attachment. In other words has transcended desire and desire derived modifications.


    Yayati informed that such a forest dweller with a firm grip on Indriyas uplifts ten generations of his ancestors and ten of his descendants, thus impacting and elevating 21 generations with the punya of journeying in this wondrous path. Ashtaka was curious to learn more about the Munis. Yayati explained that a Muni is one who while residing in a village (inhabited place) has the forest near and while residing in the forest has the villages near. The puzzled Ashtaka sought clarity. Yayati explained as the Muni is the master of his indriyas, though surrounded by pleasurable objects of an inhabited place (village), he stays aloof as if he has no access to them in a forest. Even while living in a forest, since he has mastered his vasanas and cravings, the absence or presence of objects of attraction make no impact on his mind, thus he lives in a forest, as if he lives in a village.


    A Muni has no agni rituals and hence carries no agni like a grihasta, has no sensory attractions and hence lacks a permanent abode that can act like a magnet for attracting more. A Muni rises above all forms of societal marks including his birth related feelings, doesn’t discriminate any beings, lives on scanty clothing and enough food to sustain his life, without any special focus on either of them as likes or dislikes. Such a person lives in an inhabited place, yet feels as if one is depraved like living in a forest.


    A Muni has mastered self restraint, by overcoming both likes/dislikes and all forms of craving. The focus on food is limited to only cleanliness, even maintaining himself like clipping nails is with the focus on Ahimsa and bodily actions like bath are also for conditioning the mind. Such a master who is the epitome of Saatvic Karma and is highly revered. With Tapasya as the central focus, such a Muni is emaciated bodily, yet opens many doors of higher realms through such a sadhana.


    A Muni with quietened mind has overcome the pair of opposites (heat/cold, pleasure/pain, gain/loss, victory/defeat). All human beings are subject to anger, desire, greed and harming others for selfish gains. A person can be said to ground in Dharma and its understanding only when one gives up talking ill about others, gossiping, enmity, hatred of others, deception, pride, cheating(selfish) mindset, anger and desire.


    Ashtaka was now interested in knowing about food restrictions in Ashrama. His aim was to translate these regulations and transcend the papas that accrue with eating. Yayati refers to Kavala – a measure of food that indicates a handful which can fit a mouthful (without stuffing either). A Sannyasi can partake only eight Kavala, as the focus is not on food. As also is the Vanaprastha who gets sixteen Kavala. The addition is only to indicate the transition from the prior Grihastashrama, where up to thirty two Kavalas are allowed. The Brahmachari, the growing child, has no such restrictions. NOTE: The Kavala is the daily intake and it is not to be dangerously misinterpreted as per meal. Also though not discussed but understood is the number of meals is unlike the modern pattern of eating numerous ones. Eating was restricted to one or two times a day.


    Ashtaka now questions on the superiority between the type of Munis who live in villages and the ones in forest. The Yati who lives amidst the worldly objects and Grihastas, yet has mastery over his indriyas attains devamsa (divine qualities) first. The wise taking refuge in the Vedas realize the illusory nature of the Universe, by aligning and regulating their life to shastras. They are already focused on attaining the Supreme Consciousness. The ones who believe only in rediscovering the truth by stringent Yoga/meditation, also realize the same truth, after a lot of effort through practice. Thus the former who take refuge in Vedas and following Ashrama dharma attain it faster.


    One who is afraid of Papa and is always bound by Dharma attains felicity. Anything that promotes/creates himsa is rooted in untruth. Performing an action without attachment to outcomes and not having an attitude of ownership of objects and being rooted in dharma is honesty. That is piety and what Yoga implies.


    Thus Ashtaka Yayati conversation on the subtle nature of Dharma ripe with deep wisdom takes a different turn. Ashtaka now wants to help the fallen Yayati, which we will address in the final part of this series.


Practical Applications:

Forgotten food wisdom refreshed by modern science: The traditional practices of fast and feast cycle, which was systematically ridiculed by the sickular forces in India, is now officially understood as a scientifically sound one. There are many wonderful food regulation practices built in to the Indian culture. The restrictions in the quantity of food and the periodicity of eating kept us as a sound civilization. Unfortunately, swept by the western idea to eat whenever, however, whatever the mind desires has produced a lot of metabolic diseases in the Indian society. It has transformed into the world’s largest disease pool be it for heart disease, diabetes and many more.


    The key to a healthy mind begins with a healthy body. Science is now realizing the importance of eating in a short eating window, eating right and with an emphasis on quality and quantity of good food. Since it takes a lot of time for science to percolate into culture, it is easy to hold on to the traditional rishi wisdom and guide the masses.


Sense control: Controlling the Indriyas, an idea that was central to the dharmic civilization for many millennia has been under attack by excessive consumerism and sickularism. Only shastras are the sole refuge that highlight on the importance and need for sense control. This is the foundational idea that not only unlocks the spiritual world, but also a key idea behind a prosperous society. The gap between us and the shastras can be due to many factors – our ignorance, lethargy, sickularism, consumerism, complete breakdown of the ecosystem and more. Only the shastras and gurus who promote shastras by following it are our only refuge. Sense control is the key that can transform our lives being driven by vasanas or the mind enslaved to the senses and tap into our potential.


Dharma: This is a foundational idea, characteristic of Sanatana Dharma. Unlike the dogmatic ideas of religion, especially Abrahamic, Dharma is often wrongly pigeonholed as religion. Dharma represents the widest vision that encompasses all aspects of human comprehension and beyond. In other words, it expresses the complete picture as aligned with nature. Sanatana Dharma emphasizes this by cultivating good empirical qualities like Satya, Karuna, Daya, Daana etc. This must be inculcated into the young minds both by discipline and by proper understanding. This forms the bedrock of Indian society and civilization.


    As we secularize the education and openly tolerate the hinduphobic abuses by the motivated forces, the dharmic ecosystem gets systematically broken down. This is obvious in the complete disruption of Varna and Ashrama. The colored values of the society has led to the discarding of Dharma and Moksha. Even Artha is limited to what is needed to drive Kama, not sustain Dharma. Restoring Dharma in our lives require the association with Shastras to increase. This Satsangha alone can restore the complete human potential.


Role of Grihasta: This is the pivotal Ashrama of Indian society, yet the most affected. Though we are living in a largely Grihasta way, as the school phase doesn’t offer the Brahmacharya focus and the nonexistent Vanaprastha stage, a few sannayasis exist, but with none of the traditional emphasis. As noted the corresponding Purushartha that is representative of the Ashrama is also missing.

    The only way to recover the real values is now solely on this Ashrama. By overcoming the never ending rat race of chasing the desires and limited wealth, which is only the means to Kama, one may overcome this quagmire. The only solution is to turn our periodic gaze to Dharma, which will force us to expand our vision, eventually alter our Gunas and Karma. This also will be passed on to the next generation as an example, eventually leading to a critical mass to re-establish some institutions.


Old age responsibility: The modern Indian society is increasingly imbibing the western problems as it has been neglecting the innate values. One such issue is the ever-growing old age homes. The broken family structure due to the modern ways of living favors the parents to have one or two children and put all their energies on them. Due to various factors including lack of proper understanding on part of both elderly parents and adult children, compounded by the global citizenship, the parents who were so attached to the children neglected to take care of their own needs. Children who may or may not be able to take care of the elderly or due to the independent needs of the aging household, what used to be the responsibility of the family is now outsourced.


    The elderly instead of developing detachment are buried and knotted with more desires. If we map Vanaprastha and the need for regulating Kama, the current elderly doing the exact opposite only accentuates the woes. This again can be traced to an entitlement mindset instead of a Dharmic one. Neglect of Shastras amplifies this dark problem plaguing the minds of many aged. The only solution is to take a deep look at the Rishis wisdom. This definitely is not to absolve the youngsters from doing their duties. But instead of trying to look for the children to change, change can and only begin from within. The parenting generation must understand that chicks will abandon the nest. Prepare for it emotionally and most certainly financially. Yayati emphasizes that at this stage, though we don’t follow the elderly must be self reliant with minimal attachment to family and maximum focus on Dharma, regulating Kama and Indriyas.


    Yayati has been a gold mine of wisdom. By slowly taking a peek into the wisdom of Mahabharata we have been profiting from such timeless insights into human nature. After all the analysis, one cannot escape the conclusion that Dharma alone is the bedrock and beacon to every individual in the society, irrespective of their situation or stage in life. Vyasa has been extremely kind to give us the Vedas classified, the Puranas including Srimad Bhagavatam, the Brahma Sutra and the most easily digestible Mahabharata. May we strive hard to tap into his compassionate wisdom that will uplift everyone and make us tap into the fullest Purushartha potential.




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