Yayati
has been providing wonderful insights into ourselves in Lessons
from Yayati
– Prelude and
Lessons
from Yayati-
Endless desire.
Casting aside the recent illogical sickular assertions to brush aside
these historical incidents as myths, we profit immensely by
developing little shraddha
in our itihasapuranas.
We immediately realize that itihasapuranas
have relevance in our daily lives.
As
we noted elements of this incident is found in the Mahabharata
and the Srimad Bhagavatam.
We will blend them here to return to our focused research.
Storytime:
We
recall that Yayati
was cursed with progeria, premature aging due to his affair with
Sarmishta.
Only his youngest son, Puru,
was able to think along the lines of Dharma
and offered to swap his youth for his father’s old age. Yayati
having gotten a second chance, pushed his youthful vigor to its
limits. He enjoyed pleasures to his heart’s content. His
rule was steeped in dharma.
Devayani
brought extreme intense joy to
Yayati though
all her endowments of mind, word and body.
While
Yayati
was immersed in a pleasure fest, he was performing many yagas
and yajnas
with plentiful dakshinas.
He also tried to infuse the thoughts of Hari.
Whenever he worshiped Narayana,
he kept it untainted with thoughts of Kama
and Artha.
For a thousand years, he pursued the satisfaction of every whim and
fancy, every desire in the hopes of dousing the raging fire of the
manas
and the five indriyas.
Yet he remained farthest from satiety.
Parable
of the Goats:
Immersed
in sensual pleasures, the uxorious Yayati
suddenly realized his spiritual fall. As the strengthening viveka
produced lasting vairagya,
he created a parable to transfer his wisdom to Devayani.
He
informed her that the story mirrored his life. Due to the past
karmas,
a
he-goat, roaming in the forest, chanced upon a she-goat trapped in a
well. The sex intoxicated he-goat began to create a passage by
ramming its head against the side of the well. The beautiful she-goat
now desired to mate with its hero and rescuer. But the lust driven
he-goat, not content with this she-goat, went after many mates. It
forgot its real nature (आत्मानं
नावबुध्यत
ātmānaṁ
nāvabudhyata
SB 9-19-6).
The
she-goat got frustrated by the lack of loyalty returned to its former
caretaker. Unable to persuade its
mate,
the he-goat instead
found
the
angry
brahmana, who
cuts its testicles, which he later restored through yoga.
The he-goat continued to happily enjoy more pleasures by taking the
she-goat, yet there was no satisfaction.
Renunciation:
Yayati
highlighted
that
he was reduced to a pitiable state for ignoring his real nature and
wrapping himself with infatuated love. Out of his concern for her, he
shares the wisdom soaked in
viveka
and vairagya.
A
person’s lust/greed will never be satisfied even by owning the
entire world, including all the food grains – rice, barley; gold,
livestock and all the women (यत्
पृथिव्यां व्रीहियवं हिरण्यं
पशव:
स्त्रिय:
।
न दुह्यन्ति मन:प्रीतिं
पुंस:
कामहतस्य
ते ॥ yat
pṛthivyāṁ vrīhi-yavaṁ hiraṇyaṁ paśavaḥ striyaḥ na
duhyanti manaḥ-prītiṁ puṁsaḥ kāma-hatasya te
SB 9-19-13).
Contrary
to the common understanding, desires are never satiated
by obtaining
the
objects of desire. Just like adding butter to a fire only makes it
stronger. Desire fans its flame though its modifications of
pleasure, pain, anger, greed, jealousy, delusion, yet lust thrives
stronger
(न
जातु काम:
कामानामुपभोगेन
शाम्यति । हविषा कृष्णवर्त्मेव
भूय एवाभिवर्धते ॥ na
jātu kāmaḥ kāmānām upabhogena śāṁyati haviṣā
kṛṣṇa-vartmeva bhūya evābhivardhate
SB 9-19-14).
When
anyone is centered on treating everyone with equanimity, seeking the
welfare of everyone, then he finds happiness in all directions. (यदा
न कुरुते भावं सर्वभूतेष्वमङ्गलम्
। समदृष्टेस्तदा पुंस:
सर्वा:
सुखमया
दिश:
॥
yadā
na kurute bhāvaṁ sarva-bhūteṣv amaṅgalam sama-dṛṣṭes
tadā puṁsaḥ sarvāḥ sukhamayā diśaḥ
SB 9-19-15). This is possible only by raising above raaga-dvesha
(likes and dislikes) and by developing an attitude of Sarva
Bhuta hita
– welfare and prosperity of all beings.
Hankering
of sensory enjoyments doesn’t decay with age. Getting attached to
such desires makes them extremely difficult to give up. Anyone
seeking happiness must give up the thirst from which wells the
desire.
(या
दुस्त्यजा दुर्मतिभिर्जीर्यतो
या न जीर्यते । तां तृष्णां
दु:खनिवहां
शर्मकामो द्रुतं त्यजेत् ॥
yā
dustyajā durmatibhir jīryato yā na jīryate tāṁ tṛṣṇāṁ
duḥkha-nivahāṁ śarma-kāmo drutaṁ tyajet SB9-19-16).
It is akin to quicksand, the more we struggle, the deeper we get
entangled. The more we desire and pine for pleasures, the more we
get entrapped.
As
recalled even after a thousand years, the urge to seek out pleasure
did not get satiated and only has grown stronger. Yayati
decided to abandon his grihastha
roots attachments and renounce everything. Instead he decided to
focus his entire attention only on the Supreme SELF. Realizing the
ephemeral nature of the pleasures, objects of senses, one must stop
pining for them or enjoy them under the fallacy that the objects
provide lasting pleasure. The entangling nature of
samsara,
the binding nature of any
karma
and
karmaphala
is
always remembered and understood by the learned man. Such
a
person has studied the real nature of their SELF and is truly
enlightened.
(दृष्टं
श्रुतमसद्बुद्ध्वा नानुध्यायेन्न
सन्दिशेत् । संसृतिं चात्मनाशं
च तत्र विद्वान् स आत्मदृक्
॥ dṛṣṭaṁ
śrutam asad buddhvā nānudhyāyen na sandiśet saṁsṛtiṁ
cātma-nāśaṁ ca tatra vidvān sa ātma-dṛk
SB 9-19-20)
Yayati
now gave up his kingdom and youth to Puru,
having
sent the other children to the different directions of his kingdom’s
borders. Upon
being questioned by scholars, as noted earlier, he laid his
irrefutable arguments.
He immediately gave up all his sensory attachments that were bogging
his realizing his real nature. He became absorbed in the Supreme
Self, Vasudeva.
Devayani
realized that the amusing story was a parable of their life, imparted
to elevate her thinking. She realized that her relationship with her
husband, children, relatives and friends were tethered
to this bodily existence and temporary at best. She too, absorbed her
mind on Vasudeva
and obtained liberation.
Metaphorical
connection:
Old
age represents death. Yayati
gets old and later younger. This signifies the rebirth. Even when we
are reborn, our vasanas
stay strong and fresh. Even if there is no vasana
pressure, there is a constant input and attraction from the sense
objects, which keep exerting a strong pull on the senses. As the mind
is already following the senses, it continuously remains trapped in
these constant attractions. But as Vasanas
add the strong push towards these objects of desire, the Jiva
is unable to extricate from this undying thirst to enjoy the objects
of pleasure.
Yayati
though immersed in the world of desirable objects, was equally
connected to Dharma.
This Dharma
forced him to have limited Satsangha.
This
kept sowing seeds of Viveka
and Vairagya.
Though it took forever to germinate, they slowly but surely began to
take root in time. The subtle effect had an internal Guna
transformation, though he was still busy enjoying the pleasures of
life.
The
same is true in our lives. We may be buried in
samsara,
yet if we remain committed to Dharma
at all times, it will slowly lead us to Satsangha.
Practical
Applications:
Develop
a strong ruchi
for dharma.
This will not only keep us on track but also help us protect the
good vasanas.
Pursuit
of pleasures is a futile endeavor as it never brings satiation. The
same is true with avoidance of pain. Instead if one pursues the path
of contentment, it leads to peace and eventually liberation.
Desire
is an unquenchable fire. The very fact one attempts even in thought
strengthens the vasanas.
The desire when attained seems to give a temporary feeling of
pleasure, but leaves a strong pining for more leading to greed,
jealousy, delusion and lust. If it not attained, it leads to grief,
depression and anger. In both cases the vasanas
grow stronger. Add on to this the time waiting for Karmaphala
more vasanas
and thirst for the object grows stronger, which only adds more fuel
to this inferno.
A
fire grows continuously when there is fuel, oxygen (oxidizing agent)
and a source of heat. Desire does all three by itself. It thus keeps
the inferno of an inextinguishable thirst raging, besides ensuring
the option to flare up more by strengthening the vasanas.
Desire
may be a legitimate object, yet the attachment to the object
desired, adds more complexity to this mental modification. This
constant hankering for objects keeps us away from the quest of
realizing our true SELF.
Satsangha
and adherence to dharma
are sure ways to slowly effect a guna
transformation. As the mind gets more Saatvic
it tends to give clarity in thinking. This slowly leads to a
stronger buddhi,
which starts to develop viveka
and vairagya.
Discretion and Discipline, namely, guide the person to steer clear
from the temptations of the sense objects and the tendency of the
senses to constantly seek their association.
Yayati
provides a wonderful insight into the complete life cycle of every
Jiva.
His choices offer us a laboratory of experiences which we are
currently undergoing and its future trajectory. He also provides us
with an escape mechanism from this rut. Dharma
and Satsangha
are definitely sure shot antidotes to the overwhelming powers of
desire and vasanas.
This can be definitely sped up by controlling the senses and not
giving a free access for the desires to drive the mind. The
combination of satsangha
(association with Sat)
and a deliberate dissociation from desires/vasanas
provide a definite and time tested shortcut to realizing our true
SELF. May Yayati’s
story continue to inspire and guide us to the lotus feet of Bhagawan.
ॐ
तत्
सत